Originally Homebrew was a build-from-source package manager and all user environment variables and non-Homebrew-installed software were available to builds. Since then Homebrew added `Requirement`s to specify dependencies on non-Homebrew software (such as those provided by `brew cask` like X11/XQuartz), the `superenv` build system to strip out unspecified dependencies, environment filtering to stop the user environment leaking into Homebrew builds and `default_formula` to specify that a `Requirement` can be satisifed by a particular formula.
As Homebrew became primarily a binary package manager, most users were fulfilling `Requirement`s with the `default_formula`, not with arbitrary alternatives. To improve quality and reduce variation, Homebrew now exclusively supports using the default formula, as an ordinary dependency, and no longer supports using arbitrary alternatives.
If you wish to build against custom non-Homebrew dependencies that are provided by Homebrew (e.g. a non-Homebrew, non-macOS `ruby`) then you must [create and maintain your own tap](How-to-Create-and-Maintain-a-Tap) as these formulae will not be accepted in Homebrew/homebrew-core. Once you have done that you can specify `env :std` in the formula which will allow a e.g. `which ruby` to access your existing `PATH` variable and allow compilation to link against this Ruby.